This post is written for a friend who’s hurting– with ambiguity, so as not to make the raw wounds hurt even more.
Zero is an amazing place to be.
If we look backwards, the costs are already sunk. A sunk cost is a cost that has already been incurred and cannot be recovered. Therefore, sunk costs should not be taken into account for decisions to be made in the future.
Of course it is always tempting to question the fairness and strong emotions involved in the past. Why had I been so stupid? Why have I wasted so much of my youthful years on this guy? Is there anything wrong with me? Why am I such a failure? Why is this happening to me?
Zero is an amazing place to be, because you don’t need to deal with the past bullshit moving forward. =)
Zero is an amazing place to be, because you’re finally free. The future is like–BOOM! Full of possibilities.
And zero is an amazing place to be, because right now you know what you want. DO you know there are many people who do not know what they want in life, and are floating around aimlessly?
It’s going to be okay, my brave girl.
Annulment of weddings, divorce, pain–We are so weak, yet so strong as ladies. It’s going to be okay.
I’d be here for you. 🙂